2003-01-14 & 2:29 a.m. : i don't know if you are beautiful because i love you too much
i just got done listening to the "you are so beautiful" episode of this american life. mostly, i just feel sad. i know exactly who i am. i know what my strengths are. i know what my weaknesses are. i know what makes some people acknowledge me, and i know why i am invisible to most people. i know i am very plain. i feel shame over it most of the time. sometimes i am too tired to feel shame and that's when i feel nothing at all. no one who has ever known me in life has believed me to be beautiful, they have always been with me despite the fact that i am very plain. or they have thought me beautiful with their eyes closed. but no one has ever said "you are beautiful" and i believed them. and that's because i know who i am. and i know what i am. and i am very plain. |